When one becomes older, one will be more mature. Of course, unless one is an idiot.
Quote for the day is:
Know someone, doesn't means understand someone.
Obvious isn't it?
Having know someone whom you have known for years, doesn't mean you understand what sort of person someone is. You won't know someone better than one who has just known someone for a shorter period of time than you have. Yet, one has been around with someone for a longer period of time. In sense of, moments, minutes, seconds. Spending time with someone longer than you. Thus, when one is against someone whom you might think someone isn't of that, you might be wrong. Course, you doesn't spend more time together with someone than one does.
Thus, the Chinese always have a saying that goes like this:
If you want to know the stamina of a horse, determine it by journey.
It's as saying a book can only be judge by the contents, not COVER! "Never judge a book by it's cover." As to summarize the Chinese saying, Journey determines a horse's stamina.
Trust me. It's very true.